It's Raining TV's!

[Electronic M]

Aren't you about done with college? When you do finish, get a good job, move well away from family, do whatever is necessary to get those idiot government Councillors out of your life and live as freely as you want. If I was in your shoes I'd be carefully appraising my situation legally and financially, and plotting and working towards a scenario where no one can try to tell you what to do. Sometimes harassing and controlling relatives need to be excommunicated...My parents excommunicated their relatives because the grandparents let sibling rivalry build till all the siblings permanently hate/are constantly mean to each other...As a result we moved away, they don't know where we live, they only have an email address to reach us at and we don't see them and hardly communicate with them unless someone dies or gets married.
My best friend has a mother that has some sort of perfectionist/minimalist/neat freak OCD...Her garage is the neatest most organized I've ever seen and she "can't stand how messy it is"....He finally moved out early this winter after having constant war with her for a while....The worst episode she started by without any reason completely reorganizing his basement work area without telling him, while we were hanging out at my place. She tried to throw out a ton of paperwork including schematics for what he was working on, and much of his college notebooks and textbooks!...Coming from the same college I can say that those notes are EXTREMELY valuable reference material for his career work, and tossing them is almost like intentionally lighting money on fire...

Frankly, if it is your money and your home you are using to collect SHE is the one who has NO right to tell you how to do things...And you should stand your ground and not apologize or back down, ever.