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Sandy G
04-12-2008, 09:41 AM
...For quite awhile on the flashy, stylish shows like "CSI", & "Criminal Minds". Those are just 2, but about ALL of 'em are like it- Ever notice how about all of the men on these shows are REALLY, REALLY good looking, but are rarely "Masculine" in a John Waybe sort of way ? They are not necessarily effeminate, but they DO tend to have delicate features, apparently are not all that tall or very large, massive-but that's hard to tell- & rarely have deep, husky, booming voices. If you see one of 'em w/his shirt off-which is quite often-he generally has the regulation 6-pack of abs-but no body hair. Are there any REAL He-Men left in entertainment any more ? Don't take this the wrong way, but shit, sometimes the guys are PURTIER than th' Girls.. Grrrrrr...Just a postscript- I would never have even looked at one of these shows had it not been for Lauriann recording them on the DVR- Prettyboys are most assuredly NOT my cup of tea...

HomerJ
04-12-2008, 09:54 AM
Haven't watched any of these "new" shows since they came out.

But I understand what you're saying. If you watch "The First 48 (http://www.aetv.com/the_first_48/)", you'll see what real detectives look like. NORMAL PEOPLE.

OvenMaster
04-12-2008, 11:42 AM
The word I'm thinking of, Sandy, is "metrosexual".
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Metrosexual

thedelihaus
04-12-2008, 12:00 PM
...For quite awhile on the flashy, stylish shows like "CSI", & "Criminal Minds". Those are just 2, but about ALL of 'em are like it- Ever notice how about all of the men on these shows are REALLY, REALLY good looking, but are rarely "Masculine" in a John Waybe sort of way ? They are not necessarily effeminate, but they DO tend to have delicate features, apparently are not all that tall or very large, massive-but that's hard to tell- & rarely have deep, husky, booming voices. If you see one of 'em w/his shirt off-which is quite often-he generally has the regulation 6-pack of abs-but no body hair. Are there any REAL He-Men left in entertainment any more ? Don't take this the wrong way, but shit, sometimes the guys are PURTIER than th' Girls.. Grrrrrr...Just a postscript- I would never have even looked at one of these shows had it not been for Lauriann recording them on the DVR- Prettyboys are most assuredly NOT my cup of tea...

Sounds like you miss the good old days, like when Hill Street Blues showed Dennis Franz' arse...




:D





But you're right- where are the "Manly Man" actors? Steve McQueen, John Wayne, Gene Hackman, Ernest Borgnine, Charles Bronson, Jack Elam, Lee Majors, Dan Haggerty, ect...

Doctordirt
04-12-2008, 12:05 PM
Lee Majors, who is that?

Danger Boy
04-12-2008, 12:08 PM
they are indeed made to be metrosexual men..

men who keep fit, and often shave all body hair except their privates. this is what is the "in" thing for men today. They in a sense fill the gap between gay men and straight men.. but are usually straight.

I'm sure that was TMI - to much information ;)

for the record, I am not metrosexual :nono:

but you are right.. more and more of the TV shows feature metrosexual men these days. The trend started a few years ago.

Sandy G
04-12-2008, 12:23 PM
Farewell, Duke, Jimmy Stewart, Charlton Heston, Jimmy Cagney....

VinylHanger
04-12-2008, 12:43 PM
If the men in todays shows acted like the real men back in the day, the storylines would be a whole lot different.

It would be about the abusive detective who tells women and perps to listen to what he says and do it.

Now it is..... we are all equal here and your point is just as valid as my point even though you are only 1 week out of school and I don't want you to feel bad because you are just a girl and don't know as much as I do who has been on the force for 30 years, hey, ya wanna get a latte..... oh, sorry I called you a girl, do you need a hug....oh, wait, no I wasn't propositioning you, what I'm fired, why, because I have a hairy back and it scares people, I understand, and I am sorry.

Scorpion8
04-12-2008, 12:58 PM
The word I'm thinking of, Sandy, is "metrosexual".

Ditto. Not very manly.

ekmanning5
04-12-2008, 01:05 PM
If the men in todays shows acted like the real men back in the day, the storylines would be a whole lot different.

It would be about the abusive detective who tells women and perps to listen to what he says and do it.

Now it is..... we are all equal here and your point is just as valid as my point even though you are only 1 week out of school and I don't want you to feel bad because you are just a girl and don't know as much as I do who has been on the force for 30 years, hey, ya wanna get a latte..... oh, sorry I called you a girl, do you need a hug....oh, wait, no I wasn't propositioning you, what I'm fired, why, because I have a hairy back and it scares people, I understand, and I am sorry.

:lmao::lmao::lmao: :thmbsp:

ozmoid
04-12-2008, 09:11 PM
...and often shave all body hair...

I occasionally shave my neck under my beard. Usually on Saturday night, in preparation for wearing a tie the next morning. That's about as far as I'm willing to go with a razor. :smoke:

Elfasto
04-12-2008, 09:15 PM
The only thing I shave is my face, head, and neck. Whatever's left can fall out on it's own.

clydeselsor
04-12-2008, 09:22 PM
My mother used to watch Magnum PI even though she didn't really care for the show, she loved Tom Selleck! I can't imgine one of todays metrosexuals playing him!!

Sandy G
04-12-2008, 09:25 PM
I remember thinking to myself several years back when that movie "Interview With The Vampire" came out that, "Man, that Brad Pitt guy is PURTY"...And then I went, "WTF are you SAYING ?!? " (grin) But can you imagine ANY of the he-man stars of old even TOUCHING a role like that ?

vinyldavid
04-12-2008, 10:34 PM
I know that I only shave my face every 2 days....I cannot IMAGINE what it would be like to shave my body....

And Sandy, I completely agree. There are no more "Manly" Men on TV anymore....and it's sad....my generation is wooing over them.....:tears:

avionic
04-12-2008, 11:13 PM
What happened to the real men...
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VQOMxz-O7Sc&feature=related

Andyman
04-12-2008, 11:21 PM
Hugh Laurie does a pretty good job of dishing it out on "House".

thedelihaus
04-12-2008, 11:40 PM
Hugh Laurie does a pretty good job of dishing it out on "House".

Yeah, but he had to go ruin it by adopting a female first name for his sur-name...


:smoke:

Andyman
04-13-2008, 12:01 AM
Maybe he should change it to Kangowtohel???? :lmao:

Twenty20Man
04-13-2008, 12:02 AM
they are indeed made to be metrosexual men..

men who keep fit, and often shave all body hair except their privates. this is what is the "in" thing for men today. They in a sense fill the gap between gay men and straight men.. but are usually straight.

I'm sure that was TMI - to much information ;)

for the record, I am not metrosexual :nono:

but you are right.. more and more of the TV shows feature metrosexual men these days. The trend started a few years ago.


laffs i can hardly stand shaving my face..what a bunch of silly sh*t

Sandy G
04-13-2008, 05:13 AM
Ah, yesss...The Lumberjack Song...I remember working at this place right after college, that had about half old farts & the other half kids my age..I'd sing that, the old guys would look at me all fish-eyed, but the kids all "got it" & laughed...Generational thing, I guess..

Mark W.
04-13-2008, 10:34 AM
I got a savior for you Sandy

Charlie Sheen on Two and a Half men granted he sits with his legs crossed like a girl BUT the guy is a womanizer of the highest order and he ain't shaving his chest. Drunk most of the time and he only real concern in life if the next chick to nail.

And then there's still Robert Duval nuff said

Cosmic
04-13-2008, 11:55 AM
It is interesting to look at what constitutes a 'man' in a series or film from Hollywood these days. I cannot personally look at 99% of any of it to begin with for many other reasons, but one of the few real actors in a TV series is Alec Baldwin.

Having heard he was in the show, I watched about 15mins of '30 Rock' for the first and only time before the nerdy, ersatz-Saturday Night Live 'aren't we hip' humor drove me away, and Baldwin landed a good one, describing his school days, being sentenced to sweep sawdust in the basement with another student who is out of his mind. Even fat as Alec is now, he still has that 'I don't give a fuck' quality.

Baldwin in 'Glengarry Glen Ross' (when he was still lean and dangerous) is one of the many reasons I love that film: a completely unapologetic depiction of capitalism and of how it can take all the 'manly' attributes and turn people into animals in a heartbeat.
Baldwin's "You see pal. That's who I am and you are NOTHING" is, for my money, the best 'John Wayne' moment in years. Because he ain't kidding.

C.

Sandy G
04-13-2008, 12:18 PM
It'll never be done, but wouldn't it be a hoot if they remade "The High & the Mighty" from 1954, starring John Wayne & Robert Stack...Talk about testosterone...Hell, even the women in this flick were Hard Boiled...Actually, they COULD remake this one because it deals w/"Feelings" & anguish & self-doubt, all the kind of stuff that New Men are all about...Yeah, & get some smart-ass rapper to do a remake of Dimitri Tiomkin's theme music...

Andyman
04-13-2008, 12:36 PM
It is interesting to look at what constitutes a 'man' in a series or film from Hollywood these days. I cannot personally look at 99% of any of it to begin with for many other reasons, but one of the few real actors in a TV series is Alec Baldwin.

Having heard he was in the show, I watched about 15mins of '30 Rock' for the first and only time before the nerdy, ersatz-Saturday Night Live 'aren't we hip' humor drove me away, and Baldwin landed a good one, describing his school days, being sentenced to sweep sawdust in the basement with another student who is out of his mind. Even fat as Alec is now, he still has that 'I don't give a fuck' quality.

Baldwin in 'Glengarry Glen Ross' (when he was still lean and dangerous) is one of the many reasons I love that film: a completely unapologetic depiction of capitalism and of how it can take all the 'manly' attributes and turn people into animals in a heartbeat.
Baldwin's "You see pal. That's who I am and you are NOTHING" is, for my money, the best 'John Wayne' moment in years. Because he ain't kidding.

C.

Love that film. One of my favorite parts....

Baldwin: "We're adding a little something to this month's sales contest. As you all know, first prize is a Cadillac Eldorado. Anybody want to see second prize?
[Holds up prize] Second prize is a set of steak knives. Third prize is you're fired."

Doesn't get much realer than that...:no:

Here's a youtube link. It's 7 minutes long, but it's riveting :yes:

Alec Baldwin's speech (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TROhlThs9qY)

RussinOhio
04-13-2008, 01:05 PM
Eastwood is the last of the "real men" IMHO. Back in the old days however, a LOT of women including my own mother.....considered Clint a handsome MAN as opposed to a "pretty boy".


Wish I was born with Eastwoods looks!
http://upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/en/2/27/Harry_Callahan.JPG

onwardjames
04-13-2008, 01:23 PM
If the men in todays shows acted like the real men back in the day, the storylines would be a whole lot different.

It would be about the abusive detective who tells women and perps to listen to what he says and do it.

Now it is..... we are all equal here and your point is just as valid as my point even though you are only 1 week out of school and I don't want you to feel bad because you are just a girl and don't know as much as I do who has been on the force for 30 years, hey, ya wanna get a latte..... oh, sorry I called you a girl, do you need a hug....oh, wait, no I wasn't propositioning you, what I'm fired, why, because I have a hairy back and it scares people, I understand, and I am sorry.

amen, bro.

Cosmic
04-13-2008, 01:49 PM
"You see this watch...?"

Don't get me started...:D

C.