im having a VCR problem. whats this part called and where can i get one.

[Tony75]

We had a system called G-Code, probably the same thing. Some of the newspaper guides published these with the programs. Some VCRs had it built in, there was also an add on unit, which you left in front of the VCR.
Never used it as TV stations here don't keep to their schedule very well and start and finish shows late, one long running show might have a knock on effect for hours as they catch up. You could add time to G-code, but it was so much trouble that it was easier to use the built-in manufacturer's programming method.
My Dad always had to get out the instructions to program the Panasonic every time he wanted to record a show. The Panasonic was replaced with a Sony with on screen menu programming, supposed to be easier, he has given up trying to use it at all for recording.